Cool, where were you at in Korea (yes, I know, 80 percent chance you're going to say seoul, but if so, where in seoul?) I gather you're ex-military and you're wife's Korean. Sweet. Now if you turn out to have been a 98G linguist, I'll smile and kiss a pig.
I loved it over there, although I thought the traditional wedding ceremonies were awfully complex, plus I just look funny in han bok. I'm not married to a korean, just been to the ceremonies. I might have married one, but my wife would have objected. Excellent food at them though. (watch out for the soju) (and that goes double for dong dong ju)
Erm, if it helps clarify any, I just got out of the military, I was a korean sigint linguist, and I was stationed the last two years with Greywar at Ft. Hood.