Ok. I'm here - probably eagerly awaited, but all accounts.
Maybe I went about this in the wrong way, but it certainly got people thinking. I really don't care if someone calls me a fat bitch, or a stuck up lesbian whore, or whatever stupid profanity they might be able to come up with. I don't care - they don't know me, and they sure as hell haven't ever met me. My problem is with someone abusing a blog that I put up which actually let people in on a major emotion I'm dealing with right now, and have been for a year.
Fine, if people are doing it for a reaction. You got one. Clever you. I give up! Put what you like. I'm not going to delete what you write, then others can see you for who you are. This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, just to anyone reading. I'll still write what I like, and you can still have your say as well. Who gives a flying fuck.
Here are my comments on your comments:
1) Thank you.
2) I think I give up on a solution. I back down. I really can't be bothered to expend the energy.
3) I think I'll leave it up, as to delete will only beg for more, don't you think.
4) Please do. I believe that I am an adult, and I believe that I have a right to blog. I also believe in the right not to be verbally abused about an obviously sensitive subject.
5) I don't care about him at all. I care that he doesn't have any tact. Or is that against his rights??
6) Yeah, awesome. Maybe the kid was you? No, you didn't hurt my feelings. You pissed me off. Please, just comment on what you know. Couldn't you just leave intelligent comments, and forget the real offensive ones? Just a thought.
7) I agree. I don't want to give him the attention. I did it all the wrong way, I know.
8) Don't worry about being tactful - no one else has bothered! I have a thick shell. Maybe I'm not explaining myself properly!
9) Um...? Ok. Again, I'm not hurt. You might not give a shit, but I'd rather not have people write comments like you did. Obviously I have absolutely no control over that! I think I've now figured that out... Please can you give up on the baby stuff. You've had your "fun". Anything else, I really don't care, but if you have a tiny bit of humanity in you, then please stop about my baby killing itself and all that shit.
12) Troll!!
13) Looking forward to it already.
14) What?
15) No, lets not.
18) Anxiously awaiting yours.
19) I agree that this is maybe going a little too far.
20) Wow - my own blog site has turned into a forum of it's very own. PS. I'm a her. That's how come I had a miscarriage and this article, with it's attached abuse, could come to light.
21) Yes, but isn't that an open invitation for more? I'm expecting a lot!!
22) Indeed!
23) Why does it have to be the same thing? I don't think she meant it to be.
24) I agree. I have created a monster.
25) Yeah, maybe it all comes down to respect. I have no idea any more!!
Well, there you go. Thanks to everyone for commenting on my very stupid article (by all accounts). I am now eagerly awaiting (in anticipation) all the following abuse I am about to receive. Make it good, people.