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February 17, 2005 10:26:39 AM from JoeUser ForumsJoeUser Forums
I know she might be upset that I threw her pic up here but I thought I'd fill a lenghty blogging void with a little shrine to my girl.

This past Monday, as many of you know, marked the great sham of a holiday called Valentine's Day, now I'm not writing this to criticize the great St. Valentine. What I do want to do is use Valentine's Day as an example of how lucky I am. My girl hates V-Day and though I could take it or leave it, we were both surprised by how others took the news that we weren't celebrating it in the traditional obligatory step by step procedure of 1) present flowers, 2) push through line at expensive swanky dinner spot, 3) exchange obligatory gifts, 4) return to home/hotel where (now broke) man climaxes and woman goes to sleep unsatisfied. Well, that last part may have happened.

Now forgive me if you find this insulting to the way you celebrated Valentine's Day, but you wouldn't believe how many were offended by the way we weren't celebrating. It was going beyond comical, many friends and family were downright angry that we weren't following the apparent laws that govern mainstream hetro relationships. As if our rejection of Valentine's Day traditons was like spitting in their faces.

Anyway, this is supposed to be about how happy I am, not about how confused I am by others' reactions to our happiness. The truth is, we don't need a day to remind each other how much we care about the other. We make time for each other when there is no time and that's much more important than a dozen, now dead, roses.

This weekend we embark on a roadtrip to cruise the southern Minnesota country side, unphased that our previous plans to go to San Francisco fell through. Complicating my life has finally made it simpler, or at least, much easier to enjoy.

I'll meet at you at your place tonight girl, I'll be the guy with that crooked smile on his face.



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Reply #1 February 17, 2005 1:13:18 PM
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Cute, very cute. You both make a lovely couple - she's really pretty - great smile.

And who says you have to celebrate the traditional way anyway? Do as you like. We didnt' go to dinner or buy cards this year either. We didn't need to. But it's a good tradition for those who did celebrate, so I'm not knocking it.

".....man climaxes and woman goes to sleep unsatisfied. Well, that last part may have happened. "

Keep this up and you're gonna have a fight on your hands buddy! Just messing w/you....
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Reply #2 February 17, 2005 1:34:06 PM
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Just because I am working so hard on my fitness, I want JU readers to know that this was a year ago picture and that I've lost several pounds since. 'Nuff about that.

Thank you so much for this blog--you sure do know how to make this grrl grin that big grin others see below. Seeing as how I have to hussle back to my work station, just know that I am so thankful for you and everything you are and bring to my otherwise mediocre existance.

'I got sunshine, on a cloudy day'

Cheers!!
--WLC

And for the record, that "last part" didn't happen
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Reply #3 February 17, 2005 2:58:52 PM
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--WLC

"And for the record, that "last part" didn't happen "


Good for you girlfriend! He's a lucky guy!
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Reply #4 February 17, 2005 3:41:56 PM
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That's a lovely picture, best wishes for a future together
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Reply #5 February 17, 2005 4:02:15 PM
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Wow, what an awesome chickie you have there Ted!
I'd like to direct your attention to my blog Link about how I don't need flowers and diamonds either.
D and I have never really celebrated V-day, and if we have it's never been in the tradtional sense. We often get the same reaction as you two do - one person asked if I felt left out because my husband doesn't send me flowers on V-day. The answer was 'no', of course, because I don't.

May you two be happy, and well, together.
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Reply #6 February 17, 2005 4:46:23 PM
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Keep this up and you're gonna have a fight on your hands buddy!


And for the record, that "last part" didn't happen


ha ha, she comes to the rescue once again...(pun intended!)

my otherwise mediocre existance

oh boo...hardly.

That's a lovely picture, best wishes for a future together

It's probably not a coincidence how happy we appear at the time since we are at a brewery.

want JU readers to know that this was a year ago picture

True, this is a prerelationship picture. We were still in the bickering best friends stage at this point.

May you two be happy, and well, together.

Thanks Dharma, and cheers for sharing our rebellion. I'll head on over and check that link of yours.

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Reply #7 February 17, 2005 10:43:30 PM
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Way to go, yo. Down with St. V./Hallmark propoganda.
I could care less either way about the holiday. The sentiments seem manufactured, yes, but I'll happily celebrate a day that comes with so much chocolate.
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Reply #8 February 17, 2005 11:14:27 PM
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This won't really mean much from someone of my limited life experience but, good luck.

Capt. over and out!
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Reply #9 February 17, 2005 11:22:05 PM
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, many friends and family were downright angry that we weren't following the apparent laws that govern mainstream hetro relationships


that musta been in between being downright seriously concerned about the physical, emotional, moral, spiritual and emotional wellbeing of any female displaying such an obviously genuine smile on her face while in your company--even while touring a morphine factory, much less a mere brewery?

(seriously, great pic. if it werent for the fun of shootin all them arrows, id be with yall 100% on the vd issue. should "they" ever succeed in banning cupidity, dammit, theyll have to pry the bow outta my cold, dead hands)
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Reply #10 February 18, 2005 10:06:19 AM
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id be with yall 100% on the vd issue


Venerial Disease?

theyll have to pry the bow outta my cold, dead hands


hilarity ensues by the hand of Kingbee..well done Kingbee Heston.

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Reply #11 February 18, 2005 1:28:18 PM
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I heart Ted & Annie
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