Wael, that all depends on how you bunker your worlds, and how your diplo bonus is doing.
I'm the dominant power in my galaxy, in spite of 3 civs having more military power ( I have *none*), and its been that way for 300 turns, at the beginning of which, I was mid-way on the chart, and Chair of UP.
I've been Chair every time. Doesn't seem to do anything, though, can't even maintain headquarters anywhere, which is ridiculous.
But I digress.
Peace is totally possible, you just have to be impregnable, and highly diplomatic.