I sent an email to a friend about something that was disturbing me. She apparently thought I was disturbed because of something she did. That was not the case at all, but I do think she was upset about it. It is all cleared up now and everything is OK.. |
I know what you mean, it's happened to me a few times too! I've been mis-understood and felt sooooooo bad afterwards! I sure was glad when I was able to re-assure the other person of exactly what I meant.
I imagine the friend you mention was upset because she like likes you and wouldn't want to cause you pain or grief and was feeling confused about the communication.
One time a relative was upset with me, and I said ( meaning myself) "that even a broken clock is right 2 times a day! and she thought I meant her! Yikes...
You're so right on about communication through email and IMing...it's a landmine at times!