There is just something about MySpace that attracts the ultra-attention whoring types. Teenagers, and not even teenagers, post all about their sexual conquests on MySpace, post ridiculous photos of themselves, and it really seems like a dangerous site for youth. Something about it just screams "sexual predator playground". There is an intangible about it that just pushes it over the edge of a normal blog site. Oh, and it is ugly as hell. Seriously, the pages are so poorly designed and laid out, so cluttered with crap, so full of refuse. Perhaps I am just being snobbish about the aesthetics of many of the Spaces. But there is just something about it that seems "off" to me. |
you really don't get myspace. myspace isn't a blog site. you can blog if you want to, but it's not a blog site.
it orig. was a site for artists to freely display their work. it was started by some of the same people who started MP3.com. the format was set up as "pure personal democracy" as anyone who wanted to, even if they had no music or art to offer, could participate. the creators avoided some of the pitfalls that MP3.com presented, but in doing so, unintentionally created a spot where anyone could express themselves any way they wanted,,sans nudity. it was an easy and free way to get one's own page on the web.
mypspace is frequented by people of all ages. there are some safeguards that most teenagers utilize. they can set their profile to private, meaning , you have to know them or request "to be their friend" for someone to even see the page. of course, some kids don't utilize that stuff, but i believe that is more of an issue for their parents.
also, beyond privacy, the minor (or adult) with the private profile can require the "friend seeker" to 1st know the private profile person's last name or regular email to even ask the person to see their site. otherwise, no contact can be initiated.
again, not all kids take advantage of these safeguards, but many do.
of course, in "randomly" checking sites, you probably wouldn't see any of those kids. you would see the ones that ignore the safeguards.
also, the "freeness" of the site allowed everyone to be their own webmaster. some are good at it, most aren't. but that doesn't make the site bad, just honest, actually.
myspace is kind of the combination of MP3.com and AOL's "homepage." neither are a cancer, and the combination isn't either.
it's just something you don't understand.
do ya think it's more dangerous to set your kid up with a private, you have to know who i am to even talk to me site or send your kid to the mall or movieplex or whatnot, unescorted, where the perverts can snatch them away in an instant?
i'll take a parentally checkable and supervisable website.
it's kinda like seatbelts,,,they are there for one's protection, but not everyone chooses to use them. and when they don't, Gm or Ford or whomever made the car isn't responsible.