I am an only child who lost his mother in Macon County Probate Court. She entered a nursing home walking, talking, eating and going to the bathroom by herself. She ate breakfast out daily and was enjoyed by freinds before admission. She was drugged with an anti-psychotic and given "the right to refuse to eat". Despite pleas for a second opinion by certified mail with receipt to both the guardian ad litum and the judge, she got nothing but agony from her funds. In 5 weeks,l Mom lost 20# and all abilities. She couldn't testify on her behalf at the guardianship hearing.
I was thrown out of the facility for taking pictures of Mom. My mother did name me as executor of her will, but that was "hearsay" according to the ruling legacy of attorneys in Macon County.
Oh, and by the way, there are funds missing. Would you have guessed?
Oh, and this pales the Terri Shiavo case. Mother was entitled to protections as a ward of the state. They took her and didn't protect her. Wards are entitled to special procedures before cessation of life-sustaining treatment. Appropriate measures and forms completed. All known friends and family members must be contacted by an Office of the Guardian. Didn't happen, This only child objected to no avail. Mother even had 45 Medicare stay days left!
Oh and I wouldn't recommend a Bank & Trust as a financial guardian in Macon County. Somehow Mother's "forgot" to apply for the spousal allowance. Oh, and I wasn't told the Trust officer was affiliated with the other side.