I really don't like the people here who are saying "you can't have no super weapons, my strategy doesn't work without them" because well... that's about the same as someone saying "You can't have super weapons, my strategy doesn't work with them."
Really I think, just like pirates, the issue why they are able to be turned off is that loss of fun vs AI. I love pirates, and I wish i could play with them, but not with AI. It's sooooo annoying to play Ebay bidding with a computer... it's really not fun. I can see how super weapons cause a similar issue. Almost every strategy game these days have these options for a reason. You change the gameplay enough to want to play the game more.
And really, who losses with an option?
I mean..., I play Wargame: European escalation and even WITHOUT an option to ban artillery people still demand "no artillery" in their game name. I think they're silly for removing it from their game... but they still play plenty of fun games without me. I'm sure they still wish there was an option to make sure no one trolls them.