First off, thanks for all the comments trying to help. I know I sound frustrated, because I am, but I do appreciate people trying to help me out.
There is no question I pre-ordered it, I became a big fan of Stardock/Wardell after the 3 GalCiv 2 chapters, and I thought the art was among the best I had ever seen with Elemental.
About a year ago, I had a computer crash, so a lot of documents (like my original receipt of it) got lost.
When I go to the download page, it says I have access to all of the GalCiv 2 games, Sins of a Solar Empire, and Elemental (with Destiny's Ember...which apparently never happened). The odd thing is, when I go to the "order history page", it has all of these listed as being purchased EXCEPT Elemental. I bet that is where the problem is, but I did purchase it, I actually am positive I pre-purchased it, but on that page there is no record I ever bought it.
Yet on the download page, it says I could download the full game no problem, and on the Fallen Enchantress page it tells me I have access to the new game FREE when the time comes.
I have e-mailed the support@stardock.com directly, and gone through the the "contact us" page, so two mails have been sent about this. No doubt I am frustrated and hope someone replies soon.
As I said, I really liked the game initially, the 1st major overhaul (1.2, I believe) made it better, then 1.3 made it worse to me, and I stopped playing after 1.4. It sounds like Fallen Enchantress might've become the game Elemental could've been, but I certainly want access to try it out.
Again, pure freak luck that I happened to check the page January 20, after many months of not checking anything, and found out the Beta access had been issued on the 19th. Not trying to sound obnoxious or impatient, but I WANT MY BETA ACCESS...waaahhhhhhhhhhhh!