So what does a regular day without carbs look like? Bring me thru a day. What foods substitute for carbs that help your energy?
LOTS of green veggies. I do not eat breakfast (got out of the habit a long time ago), but for lunch, I always have a salad (sometimes I add chicken to it - I cannot afford beef too often). Dinner is meat and green veggies again. The green veggies are low in carbohydrates. The colorful ones you avoid (carrots are notorious as well as a lot of squashes).
I avoid breads (there is no such thing as low carb breads - they are just lower than other breads, but still very high in carbs), pastas, Colorful veggies, and of course snacks (except pork rinds).
I do not think you can totally avoid carbs (unless you spend a lot of money on special stuff), but avoiding potatoes, pastas and breads will cut your carbohydrates by over 90% as they are the main source of them.
As for losing the weight, good luck! It is harder now that I am older, and if you are already exercising (I know you do from reading your blog), it gets even harder. I would avoid fruits as well (I do because of the sugar in them). You can get your daily dose of that food group on the veggie side which has little or no sugar. But other than that, just chalk it up to middle age spread. My in laws go to a gym religiously! Yet they are suffering the same as I am. Your body has had almost 50 years to adapt to your healthy life style and figure out ways to store fat (that is its job - to store it for lean times).
Given the price of meat, and the fact that 4 out of 5 meals is chicken, I could easily become a vegetarian (not a vegan). Not that I do not like chicken - but I do tire of it. I love veggies (yes, and squash is high on the list - alas that is a victim of my diet as well), especially cheesy veggies (less than a gram per serving), so it is not bad.