Pretty much its still a problem work in process that hasn't been fixed yet. but they can only do so much at one time.
For Stardock, I'm willing to wait. They've got a really good track record, but it still feels good to complain now and again.
Heya eZaek, you are not alone, i got the same problem as you and many more. I played quite alot of demigod games where this happens.
This IS a Stardock/GPG problem as it is due to the P2P they use. It didnt get better after the proxy servers got online, so i stopped playing for now since it happend in atleast 1 out of 10 games. So im gonna wait some time to see if they fix this
Since all the stats are going to be reset anyway, I just keep playing. If things get too rough playing Skirmish or Pantheon, or I just feel like a bigger match, I hop into a custom game. I don't wanna be out of practice when the big fix rolls around and the matches really count, heh.