Well some players need a buff in communications

So someone says in chat the very brief "go right" , "follow me" and "come to me" while playing and before even thinking of getting some clarification on the tone or intent your response is to tell them they can go fuck themselves and quit the game?

Yeah, you're right. There are some really terrible allies out there.

I've learned to just leave the game when I'm playing with baddies. They are used to losing from what I can see so I just help them on that way.

I try not to bark orders when I play, but if I feel that there is something a person should absolutely be doing then I'll tell them that they "should" be doing it.

Usually it winds up being me telling them to push towards a specific flag. I'm not telling them what to do, I'm just telling them what should be done.

Although, if you didn't tell them you had things under control (asking them to stop) then I think quitting was excessive. Right now we don't know the context of what was being said, and it may not have been intended to bother you.

This topic is another good reason to get in-game voice chat going.  There's barely enough time to prep your character and race to the flags.  There's no time for a detailed chat about teamwork and strategy.  Not to mention, the quick bursts of chat make it difficult to tell what tone a person is having when they are being short with you.  Voice chat would eliminate all doubt, allow for more in-depth and dynamic strategy discussions, and I think people would treat each other with more respect as some of their anonimity would disappear. 

The reason they use phrases like "come to me" is because they are short to type. They're not being bossy, they just can't waste valuable game time being polite or more clear.

look i see his point but also remeber a person cant hey can you please come over to me help me out. Its really getting heavy for me. Too many words. If a person says come over to me or i need help i will go if i can. At the beginning its good to say go right, i go left ,if there is a 3rd  go middle. Maybe its 4s hey i gona team up with x u 2 go right we will take left.

There is absolutely no time to type a long sentence.

However there are those that think they are leet and maybe they are great players but alot of this game depends on your team classes and skill behind the pc.

I was in a game 1 time where a guy siad i would own you any game due to me playen crAppy since it was a fairly new class for me. I just said whatever to him. he was playen an EB and i really can not wait till they balance him cause if played right he is the strongest dG in the game. As i said played right. any dg can be played right but for a class to have attacks to give health,stun,dot that makes the dg unattackable then a teleport. I dod not even go to him being able to have an army from minions and idols. IMO make him an assassin this way he can not get priests and such then he would be fine.

QoT- shield really needs to have a longer cd or at least have other players be immune to spamable shied on them

Ragus- snipe shopuld be decreased majorly to maybe 3 times the range of their base range

UB -spit needs to either have its damge decreased or its ranged decreased

TB- i think is fine he is 1 of the more balanced class i mean sure he does alot of damage but he can not take damage at all

Oak -is fine also maybe his shield should not give him health but other then that he does not do great damage till late game

sedna -i think is ok as is too i see np with her

rook  - i think he either needs a speed buff or up its base armor. Toowers well i do not see a big deal with them mabe there HP should be decreased a margin since they do take on upgrades from citals IMO they should not be doing that since the player lays the towers down they should be buffed from the rook. Also i think they need to be active only if the rook is close by or if they are placed within a certian range of a tower or flag they own.

This is why I generally stick to playing with people I know.

Your team collectively spent up to ~$160 to have fun doing their best to win games.  You spent your $40 to play however you like.  Both sides have reasonable expectations but when philosophies don't mesh on the same team, drama ensues.

JagerJack: agreed.  Every game like this develops some shorthand while playing it.  For example, in DotA you will commonly see the chat flooded with:

b

b

b

b

b

meaning back, or get back, because where you are isn't safe.  At first I was like what the hell does b mean?  and now I use it all the time.  Pinging as well, it's saved me and others so many times, as well as being a quick way to say "come here, lets get this guy".

That doesnt excuse him going OMG IM TEH AWESOME LISTEN TO ME though.  That's kinda rude.

Dude you get this EVERYWHERE on the internet, get over it or you will hate multiplayer games period.

There's a difference between trying to attain teamwork and barking orders. When people are stressed out or feel like their message isn't being conveyed they'll start ordering people around. But at the beginning of the game it's not really needed. You can give a general direction for your game plan. "Lets try whatever" and generally people will pick up on it but when people start getting heated and yelling at team mates they're going to lose. It's hard not to get to that point sometimes but it will always end in tears.

When you join a game you have a certain level of expectation. You think everyone will have very basic knowledge of how a game like this works. When a player doesn't thats when frustration sets in. In a game like this or DotA most games chat logs consist of 1 letter if that. B= back, get the fuck out of there. There are a lot of missing heroes or they're coming your way or you're over extending so move the hell back. That seriously is the only order most games need. A simple ping of the map is the only other form of communication needed. Pinging can mean anything and everything but people just know what you're getting at. A ping can mean "Hey you, run!", or "There's a hero right there", or "Lets gank this guy", or "Push that lane." It's easy for someone to take that ping and fill in the blanks and know what you want from them. Those are the only 2 things you need to use to convey your thoughts in most games. There's really no need to start talking, usually that'll only cause strife within a team.

Beyond B and a ping the only thing everyone needs to know that goes for every game is when you're playing a game 3v3, 4v4, whatever. If there's a lane where I'm alone against 2, 3, or 4 people you need to fucking push or help. If i'm doing fine, i'm fine, i'll be ok, but if you've got a numbers advantage on your side you need to start fucking pushing some towers. It's probably because people are still new to the genre but if they're pushing my towers because of superior numbers you need to be doing the same and not just standing still farming creeps.

At their most basic level these games are very.....basic. There's only a few things everyone has to know. Backing when someone tells you, ping instead of yell at people to get your point across, and if you've got the numbers do something with it!

anyways , telling you hes a topranked player is well a bit on the top , i used that the other day when i had an afker for 10 mins , just calling out , dont worry i got this game down if you build towerupgrades and play careful we will win , some more tips during the game and he appreciated it , but well someone calling out hes a higher rank every game is just obnoxious.

but well otherwise aside from that , short commands is gonna be everywhere , if you play a game with me ill listen to you and you can listen to me and well have a great game , and if you dont want to say anything ill probably still say , come to me , go right and so forth.

so its all about teamwork and not being an  ass , you two need to compromise more or less