DrJBHL,
I understand you point. I also think the same way. There is gotta be a way to make this world a better place without killing the majority of the human population like most movies and TV shows about the future portray.
But I also accept the realities of life and in this case, there are some people who diplomacy escapes them and what's even worse, those they lead are either too afraid to stand up against them, too ignorant to understand the implications or too stubborn to find a peaceful middle ground.
The first thing you need to do is stopping thinking that everyone here who's opinion is opposite of yours is somehow some blood-thirsty death-dealing, vengeful, hateful, war monger. Most, if not all of us here would rather we just ignored each other, play a nice game of soccer or baseball to decided who wins or sit for months attemping to reach some kind of peaceful solution to all the worlds problems rather than destroying precious lives, bringing chaos to other countries, wasting money on weapons and making things worse with other countries who disagree with forceful methods. But most of us also except that people like Mahmoud Ahmadinejad do not react to diplomacy the way we would like him to unless we are somehow making ourselves the weaker country. He does not want peace, friendship, harmony. He wants death, destruction, power, control. And we all know what happens when someone wants more power and control and is willing to cause death and destruction to get it.
Saddam Hussein
Adolf Hitler
Joseph Stalin
Are we doomed to repeat the pattern of violence endlessly? Yes, because it is in our nature. Because we wish to have the freedom to be who we want to be, to do the things that we want to do and when we believe someone is invading our personal space, we want the freedom to do something about it. If violence must be removed from our human society, we will have to get rid of almost forms of entertainment (movies, music, sport, games, etc) and we will have to forget about history (which is full of violence since the age of man) and we will have to disreguard the concept of a God (since most religions dipict a time when their God either asked to kill people or God did it himjself), because all these things have violence. Where there is disagreement, there is violence and as long as our society believe if individual freedom, there will always be disagreement.