Weatherbound, Jafo is correct in fact. Reporting it would require them to divulge RadialFX's private info, and that would not be appropriate. We all eschew privacy violations (as in what the "P"RC does and others cooperated with). Handing over RadialFX's info would be such an action, and would most likely make WC "Lawyer Food".

I praise the members of the Forum for giving solid, appropriate advice to RadialFX.

I also praise RadialFX for accepting the advice gracefully, and implementing it correctly. His Counselor knows what to do with it, and is (as I am) legally bound to report it (assuming the laws where he is are the same as here).

It's also nice to know that he attended "The Zubaz Academy of Advanced Spelling".

Time to lighten up, and also time to assign him some Karma for his courage, grace and ability to do the right thing!

"When should Mom stop?"

A long time ago...RadialFX...You did the right thing, you and them will be in my prayers!

I run a childcare.
(as I am) legally bound to report it in the state I live in.


So as I am in the childcare business and read things like this. It frustrates me. I know that Wincustomize can not report it, For Political reasons like Jafo said above. So I said it out of frustration. Did not mean too.



I do also.


I gave him Karma as soon as he said This:


Well, I did report it to my counselor today and she's going to handle it from there. I ended with her last night just explaining that I wouldn't deal with the issues that I knew were on the horizon and that I thought it was just plain wrong. Don't get me wrong it wasn't easy because as luck would have it, other than these major issues, her and I got along great and had a really fun 3 yrs together.

At this point I'm just so disappointed that I never picked up on it before and I really do understand that she's in denial about it. If anyone doesn't know denial, to me it means that she really doesn't think that there's anything wrong with what is happening. I'm sure in her mind she thinks nothing of it. Obviously, stems from some stuff in her childhood. Either way, I really, really appreciate all of your input and it really confirmed what I was already thinking.

It's funny how sometimes even though you know somethings wrong you can actually question your own beliefs and standards. Again thanks to everyone and I'm sure when the crap hit's fan over there I'm gonna get an earfull.


I really hope the best for you and your kids. And I hope that she will get the help she and the kids needs.

My prayers go out to you

Sorry for being on the late freight with this, but I was absolutely horrified when I read this post!

Get away from this woman if she doesn't think that there's nothing wrong with this Radial! At 10 and 13 this is a clear cut child endangerment case and being the boyfriend, you can be implicated for lewd and lascivious behavior for not reporting this as well.

She needs to wise up, pop her titty out them boys mouths and let them grow up normal.

No disrespect but it sounds like your girl needs serious therapy.

Cp

 thanks radial for your courage in doing what was righti wish some one had done the same for my mom when she was a little girl but somewhere in her life time she got help she was a great mom.i wish the same for those boys .best of luck to you radial

Yeah, I saw that... but then Po` is a wild card, rogue elephant come bull in a china shop when it comes to members pic manipulations, bless him.

In fact, one has to wonder if his obsession with that dates back to a childhood trauma... like at family photo time when granny would use a bit of spit so a contrary hair would lay down... and then pinch his cheeks to make 'em look rosier in the photos.

RadialFX, I wish you the best.  

I'm proud of you RadialFX. As a parent of 4 children myself, This is a must deal with right away situation. You have done the right thing here, and i commend you for coming to an open forum to discuss this problem. Well done my friend.

I again want to thank EVERYONE here for your support. It's funny how you can feel about something like this. Of course this is the first time for me, but, it's wierd how on one side you're driven to do what your intellect tells you and on the other side you can somehow feel some sort of wierd kind of guilt. It's kind of like...who am I to be doing this. I've never been one to feel like I was above anyone else. I guess I'm kind of relating it to a police officer having to arrest someone that in his opinion may not need to be arrested but has to be according to the law. I don't know, I guess I'm kind of releasing some nervous energy here! But, I really want to thank all of you guys. RAD

What she is doing is way way wrong. There ain't no doubt about it. Run, don't look back run. Did it ever occur to you that you might get in trouble over what she is doing? You being there and knowing about it. I can't endorse her actions in any way. Wrong Wrong Wrong.

I think that Purrball was just trying to be funny....to release the tension which is generated by this kind of taboo violation. Problem is, there's a fine art to humor in print....I can't do it, but Zubaz, Po' Smedley and others can...sorta like Purrball's
great skinning ability...I can't do that either...