First off, thank you for the replies. They are greatly appreciated.
Second, thanks for the information that you do not need to know the end of a wormhole location just to jump threw. I was not quite sure how that worked, so thanks for the new info.
Third, it sort of stinks that you can't make no star -> star phase lane maps easily. Thank you to fanandgo for the maps. Unfortunately, my pc isn't really that great for running something that huge, so is their anyway that you can explain how to make the star -> star travel sort of disappear.
I will be looking around on the forums more often
thanks again for the replies