You completely misread what KarmaGirl was trying to say with her comment. Perhaps put another way: A feminine skin is not outstanding work to be featured simply because it is feminine. It has to stand on its own merits regardless of style, author or intended audience. If a feminine skin happens to be released the same time a vlad wallpaper comes out, or a new MikeB skin is released, it has to compete with those to get noticed for featuring. (I use MikeB and vlad as examples not because they are featured for who they are, their work is featured because it is simply some of the best in the community)
As one of the people who features skins on the site, I pick...
a) .. what I think is the highest quality item (or items) on the site at the time I scan to feature something

.. regardless of author, style etc.
The ability of a feminine skin to be featured is no greater and no more difficult than that of any other skin submitted to the site.
The basic contention though is that if there is a demand for more feminine skins in the community, then it's up to the skinners in the community to provide it. WinCustomize is a platform for skinners and users to come together, to share skins, discuss them etc. We've learned a few lessons over the idea of trying to push galleries and content from our end without there being any clear demand from the users. Look to the Google Gadgets and Sidebar Gadgets galleries. We made them, featured them, talked about them but the userbase had no demand for them (both at WC and beyond, they're both fairly dead platforms). We have to go where the community leads us for the kind of content to promote and focus on.
This cell phone poll shows there is a divide, so it's something we have to reconsider.
I count less than half a dozen items that could be considered "feminine" out of the last 200 uploaded to the site. If I exclude fractals and logons of questionable source, there are two items out of 200. One of those is already in the queue to be featured as well.