You know what kills me? When guys think that they know everything when it comes to girls. They think they know how to treat them, what they're always feeling inside, etc... Well I hate to tell most guys this, but you are wrong. My first example would be with one of my really good friends Ryan. Awhile back he was dating one of my best friends, Kaley. He thought he knew everything about treating a girl with respect. And Kaley thought that he actually did know. Well things were hunky dorey with them for the first few weeks, then Kaley broke up w/ him to go out with another guy. Well it ended up she didn't go out with this guy and ended up going back out with Ryan. Things went perfect. It was like the perfect relationship. Then all of a sudden they started having fights on what most of us thought were the stupidest things ever. Almost ever day it was arguing and bickering between the two of them. Obviously Ryan thought he knew how to treat a girl. Wrong! First off, you don't yell at your girlfriend for something of her opinion and go around thinking you're always right and that your girlfriend is not. You sure as heck don't hit your girlfriend for no reason, unless you're playing around. You don't go and flirt with other people as if you really like them. And lastly, you don't lie to them. It will come back and bite you in the booty.
Now here's a story to rag on us girls. If you're going out with a guy, you don't just break up with him for no apparent reason. You just can't say you don't like him anymore after a very long time of hugs and kisses and telling him that you love him. I mean, there is no possible way you just don't like someone anymore. There has been one incident that it has happened that I have seen. The girl broke up with her boyfriend and simply said she didn't like him anymore and that was that. It really hurt him too. And broke his heart, he was litteraly in tears, and you don't see most guys cry about it. You might think you're not going to hurt them, but really you could be.
So this goes to show that you don't know everything about the opposite sex. You might think you do, but chances are you don't. So you shouldn't go around thinking you know how girls or guys emotions run. You don't know what they feel about certain things or what they think. So you might want to be careful when you say something. It maybe something that you wouldn't take offense to, but somebody else might.
~carebear~
