why should I have to keep track of whether I personally researched a tech or traded for it?
You wouldn't have to keep track of anything, Willy.
Techs you haven't researched yourself simply shouldn't show up in your Tradeble Tech List.
I would LOVE No Tech Brokering.
But I'd also love the "No trading other race's special techs."
Well, if you use "No Tech Brokering", you automatically get "No trading other race's special techs" as well.
Since you can't research other races' Special Techs, you can't trade them away either - should you get knowledge of one.
Glad to see I'm not the only one who would like to have this option.
Personally, and from the CIV4 experience I have with this option, I'd say it would give Galciv2's play a tremendous boost.
Gone would be the days where you sell 1 Race a Tech, only to find out that next turn, everybody in the galaxy has the Tech you just sold ....

So, is there any chance Stardock
A- notices this request
B- gives it some thought
C- implements it ?
Of course I would have to keep track of it - like everyone else, I use tech trading as an intelligence tool to see how far other civs have advanced. If this option is on, it would be harder to tell if the AIs haven't researched something yet, or if I stole it (I almost never buy tech) and just can't trade it to them.
I haven't had the same problem with techs getting passed around that much, mainly due to my trading pattern. If I trade a tech, I sell it to EVERYONE I have contact with. Sure, maybe a minor or two I haven't found yet will buy it from someone else, but me selling it to as many people as possible all at the same time prevents others from brokering my tech. Since I talk to everyone on the same turn, the diplomacy timer runs out for everyone on the same turn, and I repeat the process with whatever I've researched between sessions.
For the last part:
A: Almost certainly someone will see this.
B: Almost certainly they will kick it around the office some (assuming they haven't already)
C: Certainly not in the first TA release. TA is feature-frozen at this point, so that Stardock can refine and finalize the features currently in the betas or already slated for following ones (AI upgrades, editors, etc). There is a pretty good possibility of something like this being in a later TA upgrade or, more likely, in version 2.0.