Just wear an overcoat with nothing under it. Haha.
Why the overcoat? After 10 months the first thing you do is make him wait some more?

This sounds less like forgetfulness and more like too much on your mind. A vacation sounds more like a proper prescription than sleeping pills. If things were only as easy and cheap as they are in The Sims 2 games. Make sure you make up for lost time when ever you can find time.
I just cannot begin to imagine what it is like for you spouses of those that deploy to Iraq or Afghanistan. All I can say is thank you.
I second that.