Dear Joe User, I hate that it's gotten to this point, but this is probably way overdue.
These past few months have been amazing and we've come so far together in such a short amount of time. But lately I've been feeling that I've been spending way too much time with you and the great lengths I've gone to justify it to myself have left me exhausted. I can longer convince myself that dedicating all my free time with you is worthwhile.
You have even swept me up in your rediculous competitiveness trying to make me jealous by awarding more points to other users who are able to spend more time with you than I was ever able to. If there were more relative scales of success with you perhaps I wouldn't feel this frustration.
I forgive you for doing all of this too me, and I have a proposal for how you and I can still share more magical times together in the future despite these obstacles we have encountered.
I'm going to designate one day a week that I won't visit you. I will take this time for myself, also allowing you to have this time for yourself as well...I hope you will take it. I'm not sure exactly what I will be doing with this time but even if it only means that I spend the whole day playing Hot Shots Golf 3 trying to stay one step ahead of my roommate it will be worthwhile.
Sorry Joe User, but you're smothering me and I think the only way this relationship is going to work is if we allow ourselves to maintain our individuality. This is what attracted me to you in the first place. The way you carried yourself in graceful confidence. This was what I wanted to be near, but now I find that you are too demanding of my time and energy and pay me back little in return.
I think this one day a week absence will make both of us more appreciative of what the other has gives to them. This is not the end of a troubled romance, it could just be the start of something beautiful.
Love Suspeckted